Having said what i've said yesterday, today is another day in which i do not have any pictures with me but i still wish to further blog about some random stuff that i've came across and just have the intention to further share with all of you doinks... :P
hahaha... well... only close ones are called doinks, strangers are called "dumb f**ks"....
Let's see, we were discussing about "TRUST" and as some of you have commented and some of my friends oppinionated about the whole topic... it's really abstract and totally subjective. Either in love or what so ever situation, i shall not further hammer on such a sensitive issue but i just want to add in a few more points.
LOVE -- is something between two individual and if trust ceased to exist, the two person would some how lose the energy to continue on. The two would be spending quality time, experience and everything else that they deemed suitable to be shared but if there's no trust for each other to move into their own comfort zone / personal space / or personal time with their friends, family, colleague or even strangers -- there would be nothing new and there's nothing left to share.
Imagine yourself; living in the same house, sleeping in the same bed, watching the same channel, reading the same blog, surfing the same website, read the same book, shower together, cook together, eat together and everything else together.
When you cuddle up together in front of the tv, what are the topics you would talk to him/her about? Seeing the fact that you know everything he has done and said.
It is because we're allowed to move into a different environment, a different perspective that we grow and we grow together with that one person just as we would share what we have with them. There are infinite amount of combination within a relationship.
How i've seen things is that we share what we have with the others around us and yet the very same event would have a totally effect on the other because of the fact that they have a different past experience, as we communicate with various people in life--our very thought and mind would be skewed towards a certain angle and we in-return would divert people into a new perspective of life. For every point of communication, interaction and connection we have in this world with anything and anyone; we would evolve.
Look back, how would your life be if you have not met that person who hurt you so badly last time? Would you be trying out that dress if you've not went into that boutique despite the fact that you went into the wrong shopping mall? Everything is interconnected and whatever that has happened in the past is what shaped us to be who we're today.
As for me, i would try my very best NOT TO REGRET anything in life (good or bad) because it is these incidents that made me grow, and see things in an entirely new sight.
p/s: i guess i finish this post just in time be cause my boss just came in right after i finish typing the above... ^_^
hahaha... well... only close ones are called doinks, strangers are called "dumb f**ks"....
Let's see, we were discussing about "TRUST" and as some of you have commented and some of my friends oppinionated about the whole topic... it's really abstract and totally subjective. Either in love or what so ever situation, i shall not further hammer on such a sensitive issue but i just want to add in a few more points.
LOVE -- is something between two individual and if trust ceased to exist, the two person would some how lose the energy to continue on. The two would be spending quality time, experience and everything else that they deemed suitable to be shared but if there's no trust for each other to move into their own comfort zone / personal space / or personal time with their friends, family, colleague or even strangers -- there would be nothing new and there's nothing left to share.
Imagine yourself; living in the same house, sleeping in the same bed, watching the same channel, reading the same blog, surfing the same website, read the same book, shower together, cook together, eat together and everything else together.
When you cuddle up together in front of the tv, what are the topics you would talk to him/her about? Seeing the fact that you know everything he has done and said.
It is because we're allowed to move into a different environment, a different perspective that we grow and we grow together with that one person just as we would share what we have with them. There are infinite amount of combination within a relationship.
How i've seen things is that we share what we have with the others around us and yet the very same event would have a totally effect on the other because of the fact that they have a different past experience, as we communicate with various people in life--our very thought and mind would be skewed towards a certain angle and we in-return would divert people into a new perspective of life. For every point of communication, interaction and connection we have in this world with anything and anyone; we would evolve.
Look back, how would your life be if you have not met that person who hurt you so badly last time? Would you be trying out that dress if you've not went into that boutique despite the fact that you went into the wrong shopping mall? Everything is interconnected and whatever that has happened in the past is what shaped us to be who we're today.
As for me, i would try my very best NOT TO REGRET anything in life (good or bad) because it is these incidents that made me grow, and see things in an entirely new sight.
p/s: i guess i finish this post just in time be cause my boss just came in right after i finish typing the above... ^_^
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7 comments:
Everything does happen for a reason =) The good things happens, you're happy. The bad things, well...a blessing in disguise. It'll just make living a lot easier. =)
LOL i'm dead arent i? kena chopped. HAHAHA =P When i see you, i'll definitely come up to you and say "I'm one dead pork chop"
hey,
that is pretty random, but i guess that are the things that happen just like that and people would just ask themselves bout it..
TRUST. . . easy question but not easy to answer. :)
yeah...everyone should try not to regret watever they did. We should just look ahead in life and not look back, rite?
but too bad you're already regretting something.
:)
Sometimes, it's kinda hard to forget. But life goes on. And you are right, Not to regreat anything.
i think is better for us to regret something than have nothing to regret at all..=P
Question: Why randomly talks about LOVE and TRUST?...ummm, that REGRETS too?
So odd. So what's making you eh?
i love this blog.. it does have a feeling back then. :) i still miss it. thanks for this blog and everything..
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